My Friend... Help!

[ReelyBriansGirl88]

Ok so my best irish dance friend just told me she might be expecting... I never liked her boyfriend and now hate him! He's a total jerk and doesn't care about her and nearly attacked her once... he's over 18 and she's 15 and I'm scared for her since she's always been so sweet and never hurt until now... should I tell her Mom that she has a boyfriend or should I just support my friend and push her to tell her Mom soon?

[MurrayIrishDancerForLife]

I think you need to push her to tell her mother, however, if she refuses, tell her mum yourself. But whatever you do, stand by your friend and do what's best for her, not what she thinks is best for her. Don't desert her, she'll need you in this tough time she's going through.

[Heidegger]

Definitely push her to tell her mother right away. That guy sounds dangerous!

[reel diva]

Support her! Push her to tell her mother because she'll know what's best for her. Yes, she'll give out and be disappointed, but she'll support her. My friend just had a baby (at 17) and she's going back to school now and getting her life back on track. Though the support of her parents, her boyfriend and his parents, she's able to cope. If he's a jerk, there's nothing anyone but him can do about it. It's not the end of the world, and with a great friend like you, she'll cope!

[ReelyBriansGirl88]

Thank you. I'm going to go tell her Mother. I will stay right next to her whenever she needs me and with whatever she's going through.